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​​Today is an unusual day because I’m finally penning down thoughts in this channel again after ~9 months! Although I am quite certain about the lost audience due to inactivity, these posts mostly serve the purpose of being historical archives of thoughts.

First of, Happy New Year! As much as I don’t believe in celebrating calendar events, I’m gonna wish the best of mental & physical health. It is important. (Pl note that smart folks on the internet have collectively decided that 7th January is the cut off date to wish New Year to people)

2022 has been nothing short of a giant ‘leap’ year for me. There was a chaos of significant & dramatic events that unfolded this year and so decided to sit back and reflect.

Some of those events (& big decisions) include:
👉baby sitting an actual dog for a week (being responsible for another life is a big deal),
👉running a half marathon (completed in 2h13m),
👉jumping off of a 5 year long relationship,
👉leaving my job & my dearest organisation,
👉co-organising a marriage (sister is married now),
👉reconnecting with a dozen of healthy relationships - friends, family & relatives (as well as letting go of few unhealthy ones)
👉Attended & experimented therapy,
👉trekked the Himalayas for 8-days (Annapurna Base Camp, 4130m),
👉Prioritised mind space and took a month long vacation

On top of it, inspite of claiming to have stationed myself in Bangalore, subconsciously I managed to travel to 19 different cities this year! Each telling a different story, teaching a different lesson.

As I end the year with such beautiful memories of the Himalayas (attaching a photo), I was able to put down two most valuable learnings.

1. Play long - build genuine long term relationships. Care about people, and have people care about you 💙. It will compound & compound.
2. Identifying signal from noise - this one is an usually tough skill to master. Quick hack — Noise is everything that people say/commit to, signals are what people finally act upon.

Entering 2023, I am jobless at the moment (not seeking job) and not exactly cash strapped. (Shorter runways surprisingly makes you think of everything critically)

Above all, I have taken the toughest & the biggest decision (comparing with the above list) of my life — I have decided to be an entrepreneur for the rest of my life (hopefully). All hands on deck!

Exciting times ahead, I’ll try to keep this forum updated, but no commitments (that’s also the policy of writing from the heart).

P.S. I am not done reconnecting with all lost connections. I will be more than happy to connect 1:1 and speak, 💙.
P.P.S Wish you all the best with whatever you are trying to achieve.

How can I help and contribute to your success? 😉💙


I’ve been constantly questioned by my friends about my priorities related to my work and as universally known, everyone is free to have their own opinion. So here’s mine.

The Mindset — The ownership mindset is my default setting. This is something we look into every person we hire, and expect everyone in our team to own whatever they are working on.

But why, right? Why should one work with an ownership mindset?

Ownership Mindset activates people to put in more than their attention and time. It helps people put in their 120%. It lets people align every cell of their body towards what they are working on. People walk the extra mile, sit through solving a particular problem a little longer, and dig a little bit deeper than they usually would.

Let’s go one more level. Why should people put in 120% when it is “okay” to put 80%? Why should YOU even care about going the extra mile?

Human mind is ambitious by nature. We just put up a glass ceiling to our ambitions based on how we are exposed to possibilities and how we perceive it. YOU are ambitious, you know it. If you’ve ever heard, read or watched a success story and felt that you wanted the same, you are ambitious. But the funny thing about success stories is that nobody talks about the “120%” that one puts in consistently over the years to even become a success story. And that’s putting in 120% every SINGLE day towards what you are trying to achieve. You want to be successful? This is the ONLY way.

Now, that seems like a lot of work, right? Is it even worth it?

It is worth everything. And no it’s actually not a lot of work. Because of the Power of compounding. Compounding works on not just money. It works on relationships, success, skills, etc. Put that 120% everyday instead of putting in 200% one day and then resting.
Somebody has beautifully put that mathematically, I’m just gonna repost it.
0.99^(365days) = 0.03
1.01^(365days) = 37.78

Now the last question to stitch it all together — What has priorities got to do with all this? You can always put your 120% when you are working and not talk or think about it rest of the time?

Well, surprise! There’s no on/off switch in real life. It’s an extremely extremely difficult skill to master —to be able to stop thinking about it instantly at a particular time and do something else. If you are able to do it profoundly, that’s amazing but ask yourself this - “Is it because I can turn off the thoughts immediately or is it because I haven’t given my 120% yet?”

Thanks for reading through, this is just a train of thoughts that I decided to pen down. I hope you liked it.
Until next time :)

P.S. I’ve committed to write weekly at a habit group, so expect more posts on the channel. I am open to pick up some topic, do research and write about it. If you have something in mind, DM me! My favourite topics — Culture, Fintech, Growth, Startups, Leadership and Sports!


​​(This post is split in two parts – 2/2)
For my team, people, lots and lots of love!! We’ve been constantly over communicating to each other that no matter what the result is, we know we had fun, we know we put in almost everything we had, we sacrificed almost all our evening “happening” plans and we know in our hearts and mind that we have done everything right. Let’s not let a 2nd position (which is also a freaking good position to have) define us. This is neither the finish line nor the endgame (just because we are Koovengers), its a journey and all of us will keep going up most of the time but also fall down few times, let’s take it as a sport and jump up again. I want to thank each one of you to be such amazing personalities to have learnt so much from and be associated with! All I can say is – I am nothing individually, yet everything with a team.

I do want to appreciate each one of you, because you all are legends. I am SUPER PROUD of what we have produced in the last 4 weeks.

Varun Francis – WHAT A LEADER! It’s insane how you have pushed and pushed yourself.
Rahul Borkar – How do you have so much clarity of thought?! Immense Respect, I look up to you 🙂
Tushar Bangera – How creative can someone be, constantly producing creative content!!? Just WOW.
Akash V (Kirana Friends) – Bhai I love your confidence, don’t let anyone take it away. It’s so reassuring! Also MemeX 😄
Ayush Garg – Loved your energy and monologue when you go producing wild ideas one after another, keep doing it !!
Mayur Vyawahare – I still can’t believe you went through the slides 50+ times, what dedication!!
Jyoti Jain – You took growth model and incentive program to whole another level, I had literally never seen anything like this before!! It was god mode.
Abhishek Gupta – Oh man, you crunch numbers at another level, the conviction with which you present data, next level! Magical ✨
Vaishnav shankar – I love how sincere you are about anything you do! 😄
Bhargav Varanasi – You have a strong sense of negative visualisation, which is so critical, loved it !!

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Thanks for reading through, have an amazing day ahead AND AND learn something everyday 🙂

I’d like to end it with a beautiful saying that people at GrowthX use more often than not - “If you’re gonna do it, do it right.”

Until next time.


​​Hi everyone,
I know it’s been more than 3 months since there has been a life update and that is because I’ve been learning for the past two months!

Back in January I again entered a spiral of thoughts questioning what I was doing in life. Why isn’t there 10x growth or 10x learning! I generally get this emotion when I have a lot of time to think, I feel everyone goes through that spiral. (I got covid positive in the 3rd wave hence the time to think)

Anyway, with all those fusses in my head, I started exploring learning powerhouses / cohort-based courses and shortlisted GrowthX amongst 5 other promising ed-tech platforms because it stood out very very distinctly and had an insane vibe. I quickly got an interview with them and got shortlisted.

GrowthX’s experience was in two parts - 5 weeks of Classes on Growth and then a 4-week Capstone Project. In the capstone project, we were given a product (Koo India) and we were expected to model a growth plan. It was one of the most complex problem statements amongst other teams because
a) None of us has used this platform nor will we ever
b) Social media are one of the few insane platforms to scale in the B2C space (compare this with the likes of Netflix / Slice / Smallcase )
c) Build it for Bharat 🙂

We were thrown in a “perfectly curated” team of unknown 11 members team with an unknown product that one cannot possibly relate to, with one mission - Get 100m MAU in the next 12months. From the current 4m MAU. And do all this in the next 3 weeks.
We competed against 15 brilliant teams, and let me tell you that these are all industry experts in product and marketing, with some folks doing marketing for 20+ years as well. Anyway, we competed and came 2nd, missed by a margin.

I wrote a little something for my capstone team and the founders of GrowthX, I think it perfectly captures my emotions and reflections from the last few weeks, sharing the same below:

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Hi Koovengers, after yesterday’s result I wasn’t sporting enough to write or speak much, sorry about that. I really believed we could win this and honestly, it's not because I had confidence in myself, it’s because I had confidence in the team, all of you, all of us. Anyway, I wanted to share my experience with you all because being vulnerable in front of a wider audience is maybe something I might not be able to (Learning every day).

If you would have read, this is exactly what I wrote in the introductions as to why I want to join GrowthX
What brings me to GrowthX? (2nd Feb 2022)
- Wasn’t 100% sure if I enjoy the Product role, hoping this will help me delve into some aspect of the Product.
- Over the past two years of remote work, lost the will to execute (mostly daydreaming and taking things easily), hoping to get that kick/passion back to innovate and build
- Going through a phase where I need to seriously up-skill to ensure we sell our B2B product to more clients in entirely new geography.
- Since work-from-home I’ve become more introverted although my major work involves speaking to our clients, hoping to revert that. Looking forward to meet few of you!
Guess what, I checked all the above 4 boxes and added 10 new line items, just in the span of 8 weeks! Insane. I love doing Product now, we hustled like crazy, up-skilled and interacted with so many!!

First of all, UD, AP, Manish – you all are absolute geniuses. You have created a gem of a community that I would more than anything be deeply proud to be associated with. I’ve been over endorsing about Growthx to almost everybody I speak to or meet, and I do this so naturally that even I don’t realise why. I do know now, it’s because it feels like home ❤️, and it’s because the knowledge I obtain here gives me the confidence & energy to be able to do things in life and work that it is contagious! I could see a stark difference between who I was before and after GrowthX. Thank you, I won’t be done learning here anytime soon! And as Rahul mentioned earlier, I would love to give back to the community in anyway I could.


​​Hi folks!
It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything here, nevertheless will keep it short.

In the month of November, I visited UAE for the first time. The mysteriously silent Abu Dhabi and the richness of Dubai made the experience very unique. The highlight of the trip was a two day visit to the Dubai #Expo2020 :)

In addition to that, I was fortunate to meet and work with some of my office colleagues for the first time ever since we have been building the team over the pandemic months! Together, we enjoyed the hospitality of our counterparts in UAE who were such amazing hosts.

To top it up, coincidentally my oldest childhood friend, Pranay was travelling to Abu Dhabi at the same time. Somehow I keep meeting him wherever I go :p

Looking forward to such new unique experiences!

Stay safe and Cheers.


​​Hope all of you are doing fine.

Over the last two weeks, we participated in Free Your Data hackathon (Account Aggregator) organised by Setu, Github India & Devfolio and we won! Account Aggregator (AA) is quite a deal for our digital India dreams and the hackathon was fairly a big platform. Just to give you a perspective of the importance of AA, have a look at the line up of people who spoke at the hackathon – Pramod Varma (Chief Architect, Aadhaar), Nandan Nilekani (Infosys), Nithin Kamath (Zerodha), Vasanth Kamath (smallcase) and people from Sequoia, iSpirit and Sahamati.

To be honest, winning at this stage is quite unusual for me personally and it was one of the firsts. This made me start thinking about what really worked for us and I could come up with few things that I want to share with all of you.

1. Inversion: This is an amazing mental model to have. In the beginning of the hackathon we were so pumped up that we wanted to build a huge platform given we had two weeks time. Midway through the brainstorming, we decided to figure out how we can ensure that we don’t fail and built just the minimum lovable product. The judges actually loved it!
2. Team: If I have to be frank, winning was just 10% of what was exciting. Rest has to be credited to the team. They have been absolutely amazing. Having the right team is insanely important and the energy that people carry can take you from 200 rpm to 1000 rpm. Together we spent sleepless nights, coded day-in/ day-out, enjoyed ourselves and made little sacrifices. Goutham, Ashank & Himanshu – Thanks guys for this experience.
3. Execution: Ideas are easy to get by, execution is everything. In our country, ideas are celebrated and execution is dramatically under appreciated. We should strive to change our DNAs to start thinking about execution rather!
4. Trust (Yourself): This is quite personal an emotion. Over the last month, I have been very fragile emotionally and have questioned my abilities time and again. During the hackathon, I started to do what I really love to do, without worrying about trophies, ranks and vanity and now that has given me the kick to be positively energised to continue pursuing things the way I want to and very importantly trust myself that it will all work out just fine.

Thanks for reading this through, have a great week and good morning.
Peace!


​​Only a few months ago it was surreal for me to travel to an entirely different city and stay all by myself, but now it seems more like a purpose than an adventure to me.
Going out and exploring a whole new world — it gives me the kick.

I think the most underrated beauty of a city is the energy of people who actually contribute to the whole vibe. Not the place, not the infrastructure, not the fine dines nor the pubs. It’s the community together. And their energy.

Anyway, I returned from my July-August trip to Auroville on 15th August and I couldn’t just leave.

It is almost next to impossible to consolidate all the insane experiences that we had during the last 30 days without actually ending up writing a whole book. The top four experiences have to be — the full moon scooty ride inside the jungle, ziplining in the crazy nowhere, ultra late party at the beach (and then getting chased by the cops) and the Quarry expedition!

I have a long long long list of people who I will absolutely miss hanging out with and I really hope that I meet all of you again — Vinayak (thank you so much for coming! couldn’t have been this adventurous a trip without you!!), Deepthi (I owe you this whole experience, thanks for opening us up to a whole bunch of possibilities, I hope you find your way someday 🙏🏽🙏🏽), Surya (You are an inspiration and super super fun!! looking forward to finding you in the mountains someday!!), Rupali (As much as I want to be nice to you..:p Thanks for being a decent neighbor, breakfasts would have been so anti climactic without you!! Loved all the debates and conversations), Paras (Enjoyed the beautiful perspectives you have given on life and monopoly deal, can’t wait for our next trip), and Pooja, Uma, Amit, Prithvi, Dev, Dyuman, Nahar, Nandini and the weirdly awesome kids of Auroville — thanks for making it even more exciting and dramatic!!

My journey in Auroville began with the uncertainty of reaching the place and ended with the certainty of returning back. It is beautiful.

Until Next time!


Q: Socially Outcasted?

A: I’ve been constantly pestered about the fact that social media is something i’m missing out on. I’ve always known the right reasons why I quit these platforms but I have always struggled to collate and express those thoughts earlier.

1. My time
It’s estimated that an average person generally spends about ~2.5 hours of their day on social media platforms. It’s insane! Instead I use that time to interact with people, speak to them on phone or physically and more so to read amazing books! :)

2. Evil Platforms
There’s just a lot of articles / movies / series around it. I’m just gonna say it. These platforms are absolute money making businesses. They hire attention engineers to help you stay on the platform by showing you relevant content constantly and indefinitely. On top of that, they profile you to an absolutely bare level like which drink you ordered at Starbucks and what you could potentially watch in the next 2 hours. Don’t believe me, but listen to people who you admire on the internet when they say that it is not okay to do so. Absolutely not. Privacy first, always.

3. Dopamine
I think everyone is pretty familiar with this. Your mind is constantly being trained to crave for receiving notifications constantly. You are quite literally waiting for it. This causes attention disorders (and equivalent jargons) and doesn’t let you be productive or function at an amazing pace, and trust me, it sucks to give 80% of what you are capable of.

Q: So where do I receive content from and where do I communicate with my close ones, right?

A: Well, Here! I am available on telegram. If you are reading this post, you’re part of the channel which is very closely knit. Mostly everyone who is close to me is in this channel or I speak to them over call.
For content, I rely on twitter (have consciously deleted the app, I just use the web version) to consume my field related content and daily gyaan. I sometimes find myself scrolling on twitter but I’m never overdoing it or getting pestered with notifications.

You should consider taking a social sabbatical (this is copied). And trust me, trust me, trust me, you will not loose out on anything, but there’s just everything to gain, plus compounding works!!

Love you all, stay safe and Peace!


​​Highlight of Bombay trip? Painting lessons from the non-ipad artist!!


​​Good Evening everyone.
Hope you are doing fine and vaccinated (at least the first dose).

Just dropping an update — I’ve resumed travelling again. Came to Bombay and stayed at Pranay’s place. We drove to Nashik and booked an Airbnb for the week. Spent quality time with everyone and enjoyed our usual Coolberg and nachos over different board games!!

Stay safe :)




​​​​Hope you all are safe and home.

Last week I travelled to Mcleodganj with a new friend, Rizu. During the week we experienced a very different and beautiful vibe in the small city of Mcleod. Although we explored amazing multiple cuisines in various cafés and restaurants & listened to good music, the best part about the trip was talking about life & relationships and how incidences transform us into a whole new person.

Looking forward to more such trips travel partner!! #lonelytogether


​​Hi Everyone! In the long weekend of Holi and Good Friday I travelled to Himachal Pradesh with a bunch of my close ones. Visited Kasol, trekked to Kheerganga, explored Manali and Sissu and mostly made stronger bonds with my friends. Looking forward to more such trips!!


​​Happy International Women’s day to all the women here 😊.


Great! Thanks for the feedback everyone. Now you will be able to react to the posts in this channel!


Hi everyone! Putting up the first post. So, in the month of February I travelled to the heritage city of Jaipur. It was my first solo trip but soon I was exploring the city with a bunch of new friends and closed ones. Enjoyed the traditional food, jaipuri accent 😅, learnt about the culture and mostly made a set of great friends. Looking forward to more such solo trips!!


Welcome everyone to my public channel. I’ll try to keep this as updated as possible with my major life events as I am not on any other social media. Hope this works out. :)

Thanks for joining 🙏🏽

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