Today i wanna talk about not feeling worthy.
people think they are not worthy about different things. So, I'm going to talk about each things seperately.
1st, I see many people thinking they are not worthy of the love /care / support they get from their loved ones because They think they didn't do enough/ achieve something to get that love/care/support. But , the truth is You get that love/care/support not because you have to do something or achieve something, you get that love /care/support simply because it's you . You get it because you're important to them and your presence with them is more than what they ask for . You don't have to do/achieve something to be worthy of love , you get it for who you are not for who are becoming/going to be . Just stay with them , it's enough for your loved ones. If you take yourself from their life because you think you're not worthy of their love/care/support, you're punishing your loved ones.
2nd,not feeling worthy to live your life because you couldn't do what you wanted or what others expected from you . Can I ask you one simple question? ,why you have this life when someone out there in their death bed ? Why you get opportunities to choose what you want when someone out there struggling to live in war?
We have different point of views in this world so I'm gonna tell you few two different point of views of people. Let's say 1 is your Worries / point of view and 2 is someone out there .
1)I wish I had different kind of foods today, eating same food everyday is boring.
2)I wish I get to eat atleast once today.
1)I wish my parents don't ask me questions.
2)I wish to see my parents/ hear their voice atleast once in my lifetime.
1)I wish my parents buy me expensive things
2)I wish I don't have to overwork to pay for my tuition fees and food .
1)I wish I don't have to study and i want to throw my Books away.
2)I wish I can atleast see/touch the books.
We can say lots of POV like this But you know you like to compare yourself with someone who have more than you to come up with an excuse.No one is not worthy of the life they get , every single one is enough and worthy to live the life they got . You might get some questions like okay, I'm worthy but why do I deserve this (bad situation in life)?But the real question you should ask yourself is If i don't deserve this, then i should change this so what I have to do to change this? . What did you do to change your situation instead of complaining and coming up with excuses?!
Everyone misunderstood that worthy of a person is based on what they achieve but no you're worthy simply because it's you. Society will judge you /will tell you you're not worthy based on their assumptions about life but what about you? what is your assumption about life ? Is someone should achieve something to be worthy?
Your presence is more than enough/worth than you think, you absence might turn someone's life up and down . You assume everything on your mind and conclude on your own but life is more than what you think.
You might be feeling not worthy because you failed in doing something/exam , but no you're worthy because you tried it and there is much more to life that's waiting for you to see . Here the question is .. is this is the only thing available to you in this world?
And some of you might think you're not worthy because no one loves you but take a deep breath and think again.. there is someone who always love you and wants best for you . If you're not able to see someone around you,go and look in the mirror. You will see a person who is always with you in every situation.It's okay to feel lost sometimes but don't stay there for long time.Give yourself hug and take single step at a time.Don't rush yourself to do the things,it's okay to take slow.Everyone have different timeline,don't compare your timeline with others.You learn different things at different times.Not feeling worthy comes from comparing yourself with others instead cherish what you have before it leaves you,don't regret it later.
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people think they are not worthy about different things. So, I'm going to talk about each things seperately.
1st, I see many people thinking they are not worthy of the love /care / support they get from their loved ones because They think they didn't do enough/ achieve something to get that love/care/support. But , the truth is You get that love/care/support not because you have to do something or achieve something, you get that love /care/support simply because it's you . You get it because you're important to them and your presence with them is more than what they ask for . You don't have to do/achieve something to be worthy of love , you get it for who you are not for who are becoming/going to be . Just stay with them , it's enough for your loved ones. If you take yourself from their life because you think you're not worthy of their love/care/support, you're punishing your loved ones.
2nd,not feeling worthy to live your life because you couldn't do what you wanted or what others expected from you . Can I ask you one simple question? ,why you have this life when someone out there in their death bed ? Why you get opportunities to choose what you want when someone out there struggling to live in war?
We have different point of views in this world so I'm gonna tell you few two different point of views of people. Let's say 1 is your Worries / point of view and 2 is someone out there .
1)I wish I had different kind of foods today, eating same food everyday is boring.
2)I wish I get to eat atleast once today.
1)I wish my parents don't ask me questions.
2)I wish to see my parents/ hear their voice atleast once in my lifetime.
1)I wish my parents buy me expensive things
2)I wish I don't have to overwork to pay for my tuition fees and food .
1)I wish I don't have to study and i want to throw my Books away.
2)I wish I can atleast see/touch the books.
We can say lots of POV like this But you know you like to compare yourself with someone who have more than you to come up with an excuse.No one is not worthy of the life they get , every single one is enough and worthy to live the life they got . You might get some questions like okay, I'm worthy but why do I deserve this (bad situation in life)?But the real question you should ask yourself is If i don't deserve this, then i should change this so what I have to do to change this? . What did you do to change your situation instead of complaining and coming up with excuses?!
Everyone misunderstood that worthy of a person is based on what they achieve but no you're worthy simply because it's you. Society will judge you /will tell you you're not worthy based on their assumptions about life but what about you? what is your assumption about life ? Is someone should achieve something to be worthy?
Your presence is more than enough/worth than you think, you absence might turn someone's life up and down . You assume everything on your mind and conclude on your own but life is more than what you think.
You might be feeling not worthy because you failed in doing something/exam , but no you're worthy because you tried it and there is much more to life that's waiting for you to see . Here the question is .. is this is the only thing available to you in this world?
And some of you might think you're not worthy because no one loves you but take a deep breath and think again.. there is someone who always love you and wants best for you . If you're not able to see someone around you,go and look in the mirror. You will see a person who is always with you in every situation.It's okay to feel lost sometimes but don't stay there for long time.Give yourself hug and take single step at a time.Don't rush yourself to do the things,it's okay to take slow.Everyone have different timeline,don't compare your timeline with others.You learn different things at different times.Not feeling worthy comes from comparing yourself with others instead cherish what you have before it leaves you,don't regret it later.
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