Sexologist Lily


Гео и язык канала: Индия, Тамильский
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Гео и язык канала
Индия, Тамильский
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Finish on time

Hi all👋, here's Lily, and just take my word for it: a girl is capable of getting full satisfaction from sex without even experiencing an orgasm😏

Girls can't always reach orgasm, and it's not because a man is doing something wrong, it's just that sometimes it works and other times it doesn't. There can be different reasons and at times no reason at all. It just happens that way🤷

And it is great when the partner understands this and doesn't turn sex into an endless, exhausting chase for an orgasm. After that the girl will still feel guilty that he tried so hard and she couldn't...

Just warn the girl that you're ready to cum and clarify the situation with her orgasm. If your girlfriend is adequate and she feels she can climax, she'll say, "Just a little bit more, honey!" and then be kind and try to help her. But if she says, "Yeah, honey, come on!" then you can safely finish and not feel guilty that she didn't have an orgasm.


Get a drink before sex

Lily is on the phone, and I know it sounds awful, but let's be honest: unless you're an ardent opponent of alcohol - slightly drunk sex will always be much more interesting and hotter than sober sex😏🔥

The main thing here, as everywhere else, is to observe the measure. Strong alcohol and large doses obviously won't do you any good, there is a high probability of "drunken embarrassment" and you don't wish to hug the snow-white toilet bowl all night instead of the girl, do you?

But a bottle of wine (maybe a couple) is what you need to diversify this boring evening and maybe remove some inner barriers😉


Lily is here, and I'm gonna be a little smart.

After every post about compliments, guys write to me with the same question: "What can I say? I'm not cursing, so it's okay..."

Many times I said that to keep silent in general is not an option, and it concerns girls too! And the rest let's sort out psychologically...

🥊 Negative motivation (to fight, to be offended, to push, etc.) allows you to quickly stop bad behavior and everything similar to it. Typically elicits a counter negative reaction.

🏆 Positive motivation (praise, give, kiss) encourages reinforcement and expansion of correct actions.

That is:
-A girl made in a burst of passion blowjob - praise how you liked the impulse and passion, how to turn loose girls and etc.


Sofa is almost a bed

Lily is on the phone, and it may not be as comfy to sleep on, but it's fine to have sex on it.

Technically it's easy: you sit "in profile" with one leg tucked under you and the other one on the floor. Your partner has her back to you, presses her legs together and leans forward. Here just handy is the armrest, which she can hold like the neck of a raging stallion.

The pose provides the deepest penetration, so don't make any sudden movements at first.

✅ She may experience a quick orgasm.

✅ You don't move much and you don't get tired.

❌ You're tempted to reach for the remote control and watch TV.

❌ With a lot of pressure, your partner may scream not from the impending multi-orgasm, but from the pain. In the absence of eye contact, these screams are indistinguishable

🔥 Like it?


Give risky compliments.

Hi all👋, here's Lily, and I used to be pretty shy and even embarrassed to strip at times, but my boyfriend turned me into a completely different woman!

At the beginning of the relationship he kept telling me that I was the most beautiful, the sexiest, that my breasts made him lose his mind, that I had no rivals. I was so used to hearing about my irresistibility that I believed it myself and was not ashamed of anything🔥

And you tell your girlfriend that. Compliments about her eyes and hair don't hurt either, nevertheless the fact that she looks great today, she already knows. She got it from her hairdresser and the fourteen guys at work who have nothing better to do than shower her with compliments.

But only from you she can find out that her ass is crazy, and in bed she moves like a porn star and turns you on!


BDSM: where to start?

Hey all👋, here's Lily, and you've already decided that you wanna know how to adequately offer it to your partner

First, you need to figure out for yourself why and for what reason people use pain and domination in bed at all. Knowledge is power; by realizing it, you'll be able to convey it to your partner☝️

Without going into the details of physiology, pain causes a release of hormones, very similar to the set of hormones during sex. And the dominance/submission effect allows us to feel something that is unavailable to us in normal life. Such a mixture of hormones causes a storm of emotions, which is difficult even to compare with anything else, but this form of pleasure is not suitable for everyone.

Talk to your partner, find out how he feels about, for example, tying. It is not necessary to suggest anything, now what is important is to know what your partner thinks and whether it is worth suggesting something like that at all.

Ever offered your partner something special?


Call her by her name

Hi all👋, here's Lily, and now I'm gonna try to explain to you why it's so important to say your partner's name during sex❤️

The thing is, when my boyfriend utters my name during sex, it really excites me. I feel that at this moment it's not an abstract body that turns him on, it's me, that he's thinking about me, that he wants me🔥🔥🔥

What do people usually say in bed? "Mhhhhh... О... Yeah...", at best, "Yeah... That's it... More." To take the experience of sex to the next level, all you have to do is add a name to those words. And I hope you don't confuse it with the name of that cute girl from work😂


Fast sex is also nice

Lily is on, and, according to Sexopathology, a handbook written by Ruth Westheimer, the founder of American sexology, the average length of sexual intercourse in humans is 2 minutes and 2 seconds.

So it can be argued: basically humanity is having very fast sex. That’s the physiological norm☝️

And while, of course, for a seriously arranged romantic night such a rush is unnecessary, in general a well aroused girl is quite capable of getting pleasure from a very brief process as well. Although, if all your intercourse stays within this physiological norm, there is a risk that soon your physiological norm will be strict forced abstinence.

But sometimes quick sex is exactly what's expected of you. This kind of brevity will be especially appropriate for spontaneous sex in a place that is not the most convenient for it😏


Something about tempo and female physiology

Hi all👋, here's Lily, and since men don't have vaginas and women don't have penises, it's really hard to know what and how a partner feels. Let's get to the bottom of this and we'll start with the girls😏

Nerve receptors respond to touch much more actively when those touches are unexpected and unregulated. Therefore, men who prefer to move at a single, flawlessly rhythmic pace lose a lot in women's eyes compared to unpredictable and choppy partners who skillfully alternate fast movements with slow ones, and sharp ones with smooth ones.

But when it comes to the climax in the partner, it is wise not to experiment, and stick to a given rhythm and depth of immersion. Fumbling in search of variety at this point only makes the girl nervous, preventing her from concentrating.

The main thing is to observe a measure in everything. Chaotic thrusting as well as dull monotonous sex is unlikely to please anyone❗️


A few words about pornography

Here's Lily, and pornography, like all wonderful inventions, alas, has a catch. Even in it, it turns out, you need a sense of proportion🤷🏻

Unfortunately, men, after watching porn, instead of loving live women, actively lose interest in them. This phenomenon is called "porn addiction" and I have more and more such clients every year. In neglected cases, people lose their jobs and families, spending 7-8 hours daily on porn sites.

It starts out as curiosity, as a desire to relieve stress and get a sharper pleasure. Then experimentation begins, tastes become more exacting (transvestite midgets? Mmmm!Increasingly stronger stimuli are required for arousal. The inability to have normal intercourse (i.e., essentially impotence) is a natural consequence of this path😨

If you're interested, I'll tell you how to figure out if your addiction to porn is no longer healthy and what to do about it.


Some tips for those inviting a girl over and looking forward to sex

Hi all👋, here's Lily, and do you love it when things blow over, even though the girl is already at your place? None?
Then the following tips are for you👇

🔷Tidy up your toilet🚽
A woman will forgive you for a cluttered bedroom, an untidy living room, and a bombed-out kitchen, but she can't stand the smell of a toilet in the bathroom.

🔷Buy a bottle of white and a bottle of red wine🍷
If she asks for white, open it for her and get red for yourself and vice versa. That way the girl will have a whole bottle on her person, which she might automatically drink the whole thing.

🔷Turn on the heater🥶
Yeah, it's warm outside, but it's still cold in some apartments. And if the temperature in the bedroom is less than 20 degrees, you can't count on a girl getting naked.

🔷Candles🔥
It's corny, it's unoriginal, but nevertheless girls still adore having candles placed everywhere, especially scented ones.


Deepening your senses

Hey, Lily is here, and I wanna tell you about a technique to open up sex to you as something totally new😍

YOU NEED: a blindfold and earplugs☝️

You know, of course, that human beings get the main information about the world around them through sight. However, we have four other senses, and our brain is designed in such a way that they are aggravated if the main channel of information is excluded.

The essence of the experiment is as follows: one of the partners completely blocks the visual (you can also block the auditory) senses, while the other, using his hands, lips, tongue and other body parts, plays with his incredibly intensified tactile perception🔥

You can start from afar. Let's say the initiator is the guy. Blindfold the girl and put in earplugs. Take her to a dark bedroom, light scented candles and leave her there for a while. You can agree that she will start to explore her body on her own, and you will slowly join this fascinating process😏


How to beat a woman properly

Lily's on, and I've talked about easy BDSM before, and I've received a lot of questions, so let's elaborate

Plenty of guys are baffled by the "hit me" during sex, it certainly pleases the girl's looseness, but where to hit, in the nose or in the ribs? All kidding aside, guys really often don't know what to do in these situations

🔶 Hit the soft spot.
The main target is the buttocks and thighs, hitting with an open palm. Forbidden areas: throat, eyes, head, joints, stomach, chest.

🔶 More sharpness.
In BDSM games, it's not the pain that matters, but the psychological effect. If you slap, slap gently. Swing only with your wrist, but hit quickly and sharply.

🔶 Be rhythmic.
The punches should be rhythmic, then they will induce a pleasant trance. And the gradual build-up of force will let the body warm up.

And most importantly: the initiator of this in 100% of cases should be a girl. Yes, often she will not voice such a thing. But this is the case when better to do nothing than


Incredible sex pose

Hi all👋, Lily is here, and I wanna tell you about one of the best poses I know. No idea what it's called, but let's call it "lying doggy"🐶

The essence is very simple: the girl lies on her stomach, the guy enters her from behind. Why "lying doggy"? Cause this pose, in fact, is a logical continuation of the "classic doggy style" and it is very convenient to move into it, the girl just lie down😁

The body position won't change much, but the feeling✨... Really unusual angle of entry, total domination of the guy and a bunch of possibilities for him: he can take the girl by the hair, can literally push her into the bed, can explain to his girlfriend what she was wrong about and a lot more, the question is the scope of fantasy. So I suggest trying this pose to everyone, believe me, you'll love it😏

p.s. little tip for girls: try this pose on a wool prickly plaid. Your nipples rub against the fabric for added effect.


How to try BDSM?
Top 5 ways for "easy entry"


Lily is on the phone :)) Wanna try the "hot stuff" but have no idea how to offer it? Here's the TOP of easy options with no special skills or equipment :))

1️⃣Playing games with submission
Classics of the genre! Fantasy, minimal paraphernalia and a million options - "Medical Examination", "Evil Boss/Tsa", "Slave Market", etc. etc. It's just a game - you can be anything you want!
2️⃣Binding
There can be a "defenseless/powerless" effect here. Also, eliminating tactile contact (tie your hands), visual contact (blindfold) - aggravates the rest of the experience many times over! Worth a try!
3️⃣Slapping
I've written more than once about how a light spanking during sex turns me on ;))
4️⃣Temperature contrast
For example, treating some places alternately with an ice cube and hot kisses greatly increases their sensitivity!
5️⃣Toys
You can look at everyday objects from a different angle... And here a vegetable in a condom mimics a second partner, and clothespins give you


Deal with what you like about sex

Here's Lily, and one of the most important elements of cool sex is learning what you like about it

And nope, I'm not talking about the category you filter on PornHub right now, but some of the little things that actually make you feel good💁🏻‍♀️

Preferences in bed are not strictly extreme perversions. If you like deep kisses, for example, or the sight of her beautiful back at the most crucial moment, that counts too. What's more, your taste doesn't necessarily have to bring sex to a climax. Maybe you like it when she plays with your hair. It's not that it's a turn-on, but it's just nice. Feel free to put this item on your list.

Find half an hour of free time and imagine you're describing sex to aliens. What would you say about sex to a being who has no idea about the process? Two people undressing (yep, so you like sex without clothes), hugging and kissing each other (touching, kissing)... And then go ahead yourself! 😏


Sex with your best friend

Hi all👋, Lily is here with ya, and today I'm gonna tell you about one little male secret that guys won't even admit to themselves

So many guys really wonder how good in bed their best friend or that dude over there is. And no, not a drop of homosexuality, all thinking is purely comparative: I wonder who's cooler, me or him? And, if you think of a M+W+M threesome sex marathon, who will last longer, me or Steve from work?

An even more common weird curiosity among men is that almost everyone is curious about the size 🍆 of other guys.

So if you've had similar thoughts - no worries, it's normal, you're far from being the only one


Girls like it when you do something better than they do.

Hi👋, here's Lily, and I suggest you beat your girlfriend at chess♟

Or show her how real masters cut onions (without tears and in transparent slices), rewrite a crooked resume in human language - don't be afraid to demonstrate that you are smarter, stronger, faster and in every way cooler than her💪🏻
Just don't dare say that phrase out loud in front of her if you value your life. Girls have a totally different attitude than guys do.

❗️Men are acutely aware of their defeats, especially if they are outmatched by their own woman (btw, girls, keep that in mind)❗️

Sure, a girl can also get temporarily angry and resentful. But she won't be able to feel really upset because her partner is a winner and a champion: biological programs won't allow it. After all, these biological programs have trained girls for millions of years to choose their champions as mates in the continuation of the species.


Techniques for proper "handwork"

Lily is here, and we're gonna continue the topic of working with our hands. I've already told you why it's important, now we're about to discuss exactly how and what to do😏

🔶Movements up and down.
Smooth movements from the "entrance" to the clitoris. Such gentle and careful moves will be the best way to start interacting with a woman's "charms"

🔶Back and forth.
Imagine waving to a friend in greeting. Now bend your middle finger away. About the same, only faster and very gently you should interact with your clit.

🔶The clothespin.
Squeeze your clit or labia between your index finger and middle finger. Now slowly move your fingers up and down. Tenderness, don't forget tenderness!

🔶Hook.
Gently start going inside the girl with your fingers and as soon as you're inside you need to "slide" to the front wall. And now back in the same way.

Don't forget about the lube, you have to have enough and not rely on the girl.


Sex is a bad way to end a conflict

Lily is on the phone, and all of us know that romantic cliché, when a stormy quarrel ends in a stormy reconciliation in bed. However, as a psychologist, I highly recommend you don't get your hopes up for this kind of solution to this problem.

❌ Even if the conflict turned into sex, it does not mean that the problem is solved❌

Don't forget: Conciliatory sex happens after you come to an agreement, not instead. In the second case, you're just sweeping the garbage under the rug, not doing the cleaning up. And the longer you ignore problems, the more serious the consequences will be when you, for whatever reason, can't or won't have sex and are left unarmed in the face of accumulated negativity.

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