Don't share these 6 secrets with anyone
1. Financial Situation:
You shouldn't tell anyone:
• Your income
• How much property you own
• How much debt you have
• Your past bankruptcies
- You should remain more mysterious about these matters
2. Your Dreams and Goals:
People you tell this to can ridicule & belittle you or dismiss your dreams:
• They think your dreams are either basic & easy to achieve or impossible
Saying these things will lower your morale and motivation.
Many won't believe in your vision - until you've made it!
3. Old Relationships:
- People's lives are shaped by relationships.
• Don't tell anyone which mistakes you've made in your past relationships or how flirtatious you were...
• What you say may reach the ears of your new partner
- Avoid this if you don't want them to stigmatize you before they even meet you.
4. Your Weaknesses:
Guard your vulnerabilities, even with your closest friends, whenever possible
• Revealing weaknesses provides ammunition for others to exploit.
• Protect yourself from potential manipulation.
5. Past Lies and Mistakes:
- Don't tell people about the lies, failures & mistakes you've made.
• Sharing these with others will cause great harm to your relationships. Resist the urge to share.
• Those you confide in will perceive you as untrustworthy.
Being transparent about past errors will lead to distrust or misunderstandings, impacting how others perceive you. Maintain integrity to preserve trust.
6. Family Problems:
You should keep your family problems to yourself.
• The people who know can pass them on to other people.
• Talking negatively about your family displays disloyalty & a lack of familial unity, making your family vulnerable & open for attack.
Sharing such matters risks spreading gossip & unwanted attention. Maintain privacy to safeguard the family. We don't want everyone to know about our family problems now, do we?
1. Financial Situation:
You shouldn't tell anyone:
• Your income
• How much property you own
• How much debt you have
• Your past bankruptcies
- You should remain more mysterious about these matters
2. Your Dreams and Goals:
People you tell this to can ridicule & belittle you or dismiss your dreams:
• They think your dreams are either basic & easy to achieve or impossible
Saying these things will lower your morale and motivation.
Many won't believe in your vision - until you've made it!
3. Old Relationships:
- People's lives are shaped by relationships.
• Don't tell anyone which mistakes you've made in your past relationships or how flirtatious you were...
• What you say may reach the ears of your new partner
- Avoid this if you don't want them to stigmatize you before they even meet you.
4. Your Weaknesses:
Guard your vulnerabilities, even with your closest friends, whenever possible
• Revealing weaknesses provides ammunition for others to exploit.
• Protect yourself from potential manipulation.
5. Past Lies and Mistakes:
- Don't tell people about the lies, failures & mistakes you've made.
• Sharing these with others will cause great harm to your relationships. Resist the urge to share.
• Those you confide in will perceive you as untrustworthy.
Being transparent about past errors will lead to distrust or misunderstandings, impacting how others perceive you. Maintain integrity to preserve trust.
6. Family Problems:
You should keep your family problems to yourself.
• The people who know can pass them on to other people.
• Talking negatively about your family displays disloyalty & a lack of familial unity, making your family vulnerable & open for attack.
Sharing such matters risks spreading gossip & unwanted attention. Maintain privacy to safeguard the family. We don't want everyone to know about our family problems now, do we?