❄️ Peer pressure & social media creates yet another fear of missing out(FOMO) amongst the youth -> Relationship
Many are inclined towards NoFap more so to become a 'woman magnet'. This is one of the drawbacks of how NoFap movement of the west is promoted too.
Focus should've been on physical growth, mental growth and on building virtues & self-worth. You haven't even established an independent identity & financial freedom yet & you seek adventure in this territory already? Your personal growth would be restricted or even lost in many areas of life if something untoward happened which in many cases does. You risk losing your mental balance, wrecking your academics & ruining your life in lamentation later here & there and becoming a burden on your family.
How 'love & relationship' are portrayed in the media & internet seems fascinating to your impressionable mind but is usually unethical, immoral or inappropriate for your age. This is only to tantalise your senses - most movies, TV series, shows & songs of love that you sing are to blame for this.
All your wise elders would agree to this.
The desperation to find a partner shouldn't mean that you readily agree to the very first proposal or advance you receive from any woman. It is wiser to prevent oneself from misery after careful contemplation & introspection than to go through the misery itself & learn from subjective experience.
If the animalistic tendency, the lust in you becomes the prime factor which is driving you to seek the animalistic tendency in a woman, you wouldn't create a firm foundation for a relationship. This is what you will see in the society today & almost all relationships. Even in matrimonial alliances, many are compelled to stay in the marriage due to other compulsions.
Recommended Reading
You aren't asked to become a brahmachari but at least become a responsible person who could later lead an ideal life of householder at an appropriate age.
Let's stand strongly onto our virtues & try our best to become an ideal young man, the definition of which has best been given by Swami Vivekananda! 👈🏼 A MUST Read!
No matter how much you've erred or messed your life up, you can still turn it around. It's no other than Swami Vivekananda again who inspires us & tells us how to do it:
Many are inclined towards NoFap more so to become a 'woman magnet'. This is one of the drawbacks of how NoFap movement of the west is promoted too.
Focus should've been on physical growth, mental growth and on building virtues & self-worth. You haven't even established an independent identity & financial freedom yet & you seek adventure in this territory already? Your personal growth would be restricted or even lost in many areas of life if something untoward happened which in many cases does. You risk losing your mental balance, wrecking your academics & ruining your life in lamentation later here & there and becoming a burden on your family.
How 'love & relationship' are portrayed in the media & internet seems fascinating to your impressionable mind but is usually unethical, immoral or inappropriate for your age. This is only to tantalise your senses - most movies, TV series, shows & songs of love that you sing are to blame for this.
All your wise elders would agree to this.
The desperation to find a partner shouldn't mean that you readily agree to the very first proposal or advance you receive from any woman. It is wiser to prevent oneself from misery after careful contemplation & introspection than to go through the misery itself & learn from subjective experience.
If the animalistic tendency, the lust in you becomes the prime factor which is driving you to seek the animalistic tendency in a woman, you wouldn't create a firm foundation for a relationship. This is what you will see in the society today & almost all relationships. Even in matrimonial alliances, many are compelled to stay in the marriage due to other compulsions.
Recommended Reading
You aren't asked to become a brahmachari but at least become a responsible person who could later lead an ideal life of householder at an appropriate age.
Let's stand strongly onto our virtues & try our best to become an ideal young man, the definition of which has best been given by Swami Vivekananda! 👈🏼 A MUST Read!
No matter how much you've erred or messed your life up, you can still turn it around. It's no other than Swami Vivekananda again who inspires us & tells us how to do it:
Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life; dream of it; think of it; live on that idea. Let the brain, the body, muscles, nerves, every part of your body be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success and this is the way great giants are produced. Never mind failures; they are quite natural, they are the beauty of life. What would life be without them? It would not be worth living if it were not for struggles. Where would be the poetry of life?
We have wept long enough. No more weeping, but stand on your feet and be men. It is a man-making religion that we want. It is man-making theories that we want. It is man-making education all round that we want. And here is the test of truth – anything that makes you weak physically, intellectually, and spiritually, reject as poison; there is no life in it, it cannot be true. Truth is strengthening. Truth is purity, truth is all knowledge.Quotes from the book 👈🏼Recommended Reading for all students!
What makes you weep, my friend? In you is all power. Summon up your all-powerful nature. O mighty one, and this whole universe will lie at your feet. It is the self alone that predominates and not matter.