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How to start meeting girls if you're not confident

That's the question I frequently receive from my subscribers. Well, here's Lily👋, let's figure it out together.

The first thing you should take care of is your appearance, and for two good reasons at once

Girls always, ALWAYS pay attention to their looks, so you should probably get your hair done and wear something nice to the eye. It's not about being head over heels with brand name labels, it's about looking stylish and modern. I'm sure you are guilty of judging people by their clothes yourself. Keep in mind, no one will make exceptions for you either.

🔶 The point is that if you know that you wear clean shoes, have your hair styled, have fresh breath, and decent jeans, you'll feel more self-confident. Over time, you'll learn to be assertive even if you're dressed in rags and pigeons within 300 meters drop dead from your breath, but in the meantime, clean yourself up


To shave or not to shave?

Here's Lily 👋 and I specifically polled a bunch of my acquaintances/friends and as I found out, lots of people see beauty in both options

Most people chose "hairless" for both themselves and their partner. But not all of them! If you are guided by how to make your partner more pleasant - the best way out is just to ask him or her. But if you wish to please the majority, then the choice is clearly in favor of a smooth skin.

Although personally I'm not a fan of shaving per se😡. The intimate area is sensitive, and shaving is a direct route to irritation. Is that something you need?🤢

My boyfriend, e.g., just cuts his hair with a machine, it doesn't irritate his skin, and the hair is short, small and doesn't get in the way at all. As for me, I go for shugaring once a month. No irritation, the procedure is done once a month, and also my master treats me with delicious coffee every time😁😁😁


Why condoms are better than premature intercourse termination (IPA)

Here is Lily, and today I intend to explain why one of the most popular methods of contraception is so problematic.

I don't wanna tell you about such banal minuses as a low percentage of protection against pregnancy (remember the prenatal fluid) and a high probability of contracting STDs. Rather, I mean to share with you the much bigger disadvantage of PPA, the harm to men😱

One of the main conditions for good, quality sex is the need to relax. Relax completely. Using the "may I have time to pull out" method, a man must always be alert and ready to "jump out." You cannot fully enjoy the process unless you leave all thoughts "off the board."

Regular tension often leads to nervous states and can even disrupt your 🌶

So even my boyfriend and I, who are extremely experienced and trust each other 100%, use condoms. And we advise you as well.


Facial hair and cunnilingus

One of my subscribers sent me a question, "Does facial hair get in the way during cunnilingus?" Here's Lily, let's figure it out together👨🏻

It all depends on what kind of facial vegetation you have and, naturally, on your lady's preference. Perhaps the only kind of vegetation that can really get in the way is short but stiff stubble. Practice shows that if you rub your skin with it, you're guaranteed irritation. And even more so against such delicate skin as in the intimate area. But it also applies to kissing. So either grow your hair a little longer or shave🤷🏻‍♀️

A beard, especially if it's soft and well-groomed, doesn't get in the way by any means. Yep, there's the issue of your girlfriend's aesthetic tastes and the fact that she might just be simply discomfort, so it's best to just ask your lady here.


Never buy cheap, low-quality toys

Lily is with you and I personally know a girl who had a similar toy fall apart right during the process, right inside her. Then I had to take out the springs😳

And let alone the fact that there is no guarantee that the product is made of quality material. Do you really want irritation and infection "inside"? I guess not.

I get it, plenty of people just aren't used to spending money on a sex toy, and they cost a lot. But I don't like to "spend," I like to "invest in my pleasure". Feel the change in wording and the very attitude toward this kind of "spending"?

Would you like to see a selection of the best budget toys?


Positions your man is sure to love

Here's Lily and I keep coming up with "for girls" content. I've been getting a lot of questions lately, "How exactly do you bring your partner to orgasm?"

As you may have guessed, there is no exact answer to this question. I can only judge from statistics and my own experience. So, let's start my top🔥

🔸Doggy style.

Many of my partners have called this pose their favorite. It has everything: deep penetration, cool view from behind, and the fact that you can often bring a girl to orgasm just in this position.

🔸The horsewoman.

Yep, men like it when girls take the initiative themselves. That way your man can find out what tempo you like, let his hands go and enjoy seeing his girl get high.

🔸Side up.

In my practice, this is the most comfortable position to achieve a male orgasm.
If you have the question of where to put your hands, it's simple: let yourself explore your body a bit.


Shattering popular misconceptions

Hi, Lily is with you👋 and today I wanna answer a frequent question I get asked and explain that good sex ≠ orgasm

An orgasm is great, but it's not always easy or necessary, consists of many elements and involves working on yourself first.🤷🏻‍♀️

But sex without an orgasm is just as interesting. Lots of myths exist, such as that sex without an orgasm is unhealthy, but that's all bullshit😡

What's really dangerous is worrying about having an orgasm. Normally, this neurotic fear just distances us from the peak and makes it harder to reach it💋


Girls enjoy being submissive

Lily is on the phone and I don't think it's any secret that 99% of girls like to feel weak😏

It's literally at the level of female physiology to look for a "strong partner". So an insecure man has much less chance of not only getting a girl into bed, but also of satisfying her😔

Friend, that's just a piece of advice. Take care of your self-esteem if you have a problem with it. Once you solve this problem - the problem of finding a girl for both sex and relationship will disappear😈


Are hickeys okay or not?

Here's Lily, hi👋 Actually, my opinion is quite different from most people's, but more on that later.

Most of the time people don't put hickeys on purpose and that's the kind of thing you have to fight. Hickey on a prominent place - it's, though beautiful and hot, but still vulgar. At work you are unlikely to praise for this. When I was a part-time manager and came to me with a purple neck was a scandal, I was afraid I'd get fired. So be careful with that☝️

But my boyfriend and I just love to leave each other bruises. When I just happen to notice such a "mark" from sex in my household - it naturally "hits me in the head" with excitement🔥🔥🔥, so I suggest you try it too, just pick a place that you can easily cover up with your clothes😏


Lubricant for anal sex

Here's Lily and now let's talk about how to make your anal sex even better.

Choose lubes specifically for anal sex. They're thicker, glide better, and don't dry out longer. And as you know, natural lube is not produced in this place, so there should be plenty of it💦

Typically, everyone advises to take lubricants with an anesthetic, don't listen to them. If a girl is in pain, it means you're doing something wrong and need to stop. Besides, if it ends up on your fingers, other parts of your body, and then in your mouth, you'll curse the taste for a long time and walk around with a numb mouth 😬


Five signs that she's content with your dick

Hey, my dears! Lily’s on the line👋

1. A girl isn’t dumbstruck the first time she sees your "device".
2. Practices blowjob during foreplay on her own initiative (without blackmail or coercion)
3. She enjoys touching and stroking your genitals for fun (at the cinema, for instance😉 )
4. The girl easily agrees to meet you again (again, without blackmail).
5. Her friends don't giggle when they meet her (when we, girls, don't communicate with a guy enough, we share everything with our girlfriends - it's true)


Honesty is sexy

Lily’s here, and I wish every subscriber and follower of mine to get that you have to be honest, as it opens up lots of room for personal growth for both you and your relationship❗️

Also, candor is arousing. Any conversation about sex, no matter how hard it is to start, if you've already started, starts to turn you on. Talk to your partner about sex, listen, and communicate what you want.

So talk about sex and it gets better, talk about sex and it gets more🔥😏


Sex is a process, not a goal

👋 Here's Lily, and I wanna point out to you the mistake many members of both the female and male sex make.

In my experience, the worst thing about sex is concentrating on reaching orgasm. But it's not just about penetration and that very peak. Include foreplay, stroking, nibbling, some kind of play in your game. Go over places that you couldn't even guess were erogenous.

Once, a guy was massaging me, and he went all over my body, and when he started stroking and massaging my calves, I experienced such intense pleasure that I did not expect this from myself. Enjoy each other's bodies, remember, sex is a fascinating adventure, not a destination.


More "women's tips "

Hi👋, Lilly is here and today I wanna talk about one of the most popular feminine misconceptions.

And it goes something like "If I'm too relaxed and passionate, he'll think I'm a whore". Everyone knows that's bullshit, right? How a girl acts in bed has nothing to do with how many partners she has had.

As a girl, who not only likes to frolic with other girls, but also discuss with them "secrets", I can tell you that I met yesterday's virgins with a wild thirst for sex in their eyes and lack of initiative in bed girls with 10+ partners

In the 21st century, people are much more open to experimentation and sexual freedom. The only measurement of what is the norm is whether or not it brings you and your partner pleasure. Everything else is trivia and gossip😡


Some more anal sex secrets

Here's Lily👋 I've already told you a lot about anal sex, but I have more to add😏

🔸 Bring her to orgasm.

After a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, it will be easier for your girlfriend to relax and get in the mood for a daring experiment.

🔸 Use a condom.

Yeah, a girl can't get pregnant during anal sex, but you're not immune to infections in doing so. Even if you're sure of each other's cleanliness, neither of you want to feel irritation, right? 😬


How to understand what a woman is imitating in bed: the "soccer match" method

Lily is here, hello👋
Now I wanna tell you how to figure out that your girlfriend is cheating on you with the most comprehensible, for men, example. With football⚽️

🔸How does an ardent fan behave when an attacker runs to the goal with the ball? That's right: he starts breathing frequently, shouting and waving his scarf, or, on the contrary, he holds his breath and freezes waiting for the goal.

If the girl breathes measuredly and her face does not blush, you will not have a real orgasm, just like the Belgian team won the world championship🤷🏻‍♀️

🔸When the ball flies into the goal, the net doesn't stand still, it wobbles. A woman's intimate muscles are not idle either, they contract during orgasm.

If you do not feel contractions, you hit the bar🥅

And if you suddenly caught your girlfriend on simulation with this method - don't rush to "give her a red card", wait until I release a post on this topic, where I will tell you what


Couple of non-obvious tips

Hi👋, Lily is with you and today I have answers for those who suffer from low sensitivity

I totally get you, I used to have issues with this too until I started being conscious about sex, so let's figure out together what to do about it

🔸 Never practice dry sex
It doesn't matter if you're alone or with a girlfriend. Interacting with your dick without any lubrication is a path to irritation and decreased sensitivity

🔸 Use condoms
Yeah, I know it sounds absurd, but I also know what I'm talking about. The thing is, when you start using condoms on a regular basis, because of the decreased intensity, the sensitivity will increase

🔸 Abstinence is your choice
Masturbation can cause decreased sensitivity. Show some willpower and try abstaining for a month, you'll notice the results and you won't want to go back to it.


How to have anal sex to make your girlfriend like it p.2

Here's Lily and we keep turning anal sex in your girlfriend's eyes from taboo to fetish👍❤️

Use sex toys😏

Buy a small anal plug or vibrator. Pick some cute, bright one (thankfully, there are a lot of them now). Apply a special lubricant to it and insert it with gentle screwing movements. It relaxes the anus, and penetration will be easier and more painless. Stop as soon as the girl says it hurts. Teach her to trust you.

Spare no lube💧

Even a very prepared, wildly aroused anus gets dry. The fact is that it does not produce its own lubricant, so you can't do without lubricant. By the way, saliva won't work❌. It surely moistens for a few seconds, but it dries very quickly.


Female orgasm

Hey, Lily is with you 👋 You asked for "women's content" - get the women's content. I wanna talk about something as important as the female orgasm.

Let's start with the fact that the female orgasm is only 50% the work of men. The rest of it is your job. So right now, I have a couple of tips for you to experience this fairy tale✨

❗️Give up masturbation for a few days

Many ladies at the beginning of their sexual journey get orgasms in different ways: stimulation of the clitoris with hands, toys and a stream of water. Because of the high intensity, the body gets used to such aggressive stimulation and then it is more difficult for the girl to reach the peak🤷🏻‍♀️

❗️Relax and think about nothing.

I had that problem myself. Nope, I wasn't thinking about tomorrow's job interview or anything like that. But girls often worry, "Does he like me?" or "How do I look now?"

My lovely girls, believe me, you're sexier when you're totally committed to the process. And men go crazy when you have an orgasm😉


How to have anal sex so the girl likes it

Here's Lily, and today I'm gonna tell you how to make anal sex for a girl not a forced sacrifice for a guy, but one of your favorite practices

First, you need to realize that such a process can't be quick. My boyfriend and I reached the point where anal became a regular practice with several months of constant training

🔶 Prepare her correctly
You need to get her used to the fact that her anus is an object being interacted with. If she will flinch at every touch and experience discomfort from it, what kind of anal sex can we talk about?

Gently run your finger over it during your regular sex, slide your tongue to it during cunnilingus, then you can add light massage without penetration and only then move on to direct fondling

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